Admitting the Obvious

The Obvious is for the eye, for the ear, for the nose, for the Heart and for the soul. There is no obvious for the Brain. The mind needs reasons, reasons which are not always there. Things are sometimes so obvious that we don't even look for reasons but reasons is all you'll seek if you apply your minds to it.

So often there is a strife between the mind and the heart; between what you think you want and what you actually want. There are somethings we would love to hate; but as it turns out not everything(living or non-living) that you would love to hate allows you to hate it. In loving to hate, somewhere you miss the "hate" and only the rest remains.

This is a recipe for an absolute anarchy within. A constant struggle between the mind and heart, between love and hate. This is what makes admitting so difficult. In your want to hate; we do everything possible to ignore. The mind hates to give in to the heart. It's like losing a bit of the self esteem. Losing out on what you thought was a strong will.

There are so many things in our lives that we shouldn't like but still we end up liking it. Finding reasons could be difficult for the brain. People who like to live with their pseudo-likings; would love to live in their alternate reality than to admit that they haven't been able to have a control over themselves. For them the day day they do realise is a great setback.

Obviously they can't live in this perpetually but the longer the extension the greater the chance of losing which could probably have been their greatest treasure. One shouldn't bring in his ego into it because once the ego comes in; it's hard to let it go. Admitting is actually a great virtue to have. Analyse and then admit; it wont cost you to keep touch with the reality.

“Each of us has an inner dream that we can unfold if we will just have the courage to admit what it is. And the faith to trust our own admission. The admitting is often very difficult.”

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