A vent in the Delirium

The constants in life turn out to be mostly the unwanted part of it.A little time spent thinking would reveal that the biggest constant is surely DEATH.Nobody can avoid it,its the most definite thing in our ever so vulnerable lives.Other constants are happiness and sadness,the good and the bad times. Why I like to call them constants is because our lives are governed by a lot of factors,which keep on changing with time but then there are these factors which you know will surely be there and don't sprung up a surprise. A constant statement like "The man died." It does quite generate any emotion. But when you add variable to it "The man died in a Road Accident." The death was inevitable but it was untimely and thats what generates pathos for the man. What I am trying to say is that DEATH is a constant so if you are able to view at the constants of life and separate the variable,you attain your solitude in heaven.

This whole concept of the 'best friend' is something I haven't quite been able to come to terms with. I have serious concerns about things like  How many bests can you have? Are there different bests at different stages of your life? and Can you change your best? Well actually for me this Best Friend in itself is the biggest question.Surely you cant have any ranking system or measuring unit for your friends.Friendship is lived and loved by feelings and emotions,and there can not be a measure of that. I would rather not even like to think upon this question for long because in doing so I would be questioning the feelings and emotions that my friends have towards me. I would rather hope nobody makes me,their best friend and gives me a band to wear saying that someday.I am happy to be just friends with them.

Every decision in life is actually quite simple Each decision boils down to just one simple question, whether yes or no? Each and every problem off our life will narrow down to just this simple question. This is because each realistic problem could have only these two possible solutions. Every other thought is merely a way of keeping oneself away from taking a decision.

No matter what the pro's or con's of a person is(according to you) it always boils to just one point......Is the person happy from within? and if he is then there is no point bitching or discussing him coz its not affecting him in anyway.When you are happy with yourself you tend not to care much about what's being talked about you. This happiness is what leads to satisfaction.I mean,if I earn 40000/month n ambani makes a 4 crore a month but  he isn't happy whereas I am then ,wotz the point. What I intend to say is that even sky is not the limit, so if you are after stars then it will take you a few lifetimes to attain that happiness , so whatever you do stick to a level that's satisfying for you n makes you happy and then from there sky is your limit. It doesn't take money to be richer than a ambani,everyone could be richer than ambani in his own rights its just a matter of your personal satisfaction.