A vent in the Delirium

Ever felt like you did something which was highly uncharacteristic of you, while in a group of people.This is because a crowd has an identity of its own and it isn't the same as the one you possess.That identity supersedes all individual identities, to assume an un-assailable status. What's interesting is to see if this theory can be applied to smaller groups. A familiar term in this regard could be "peer-pressure".Its something which everyone experiences and it forces them into doing unwanted or otherwise unwilling acts, but could this pressure lead to a loss of identity? I think it could! Although the so called "peer pressure" might not just be the only reason. Being a part of the group is reason enough for you to assume an identity of the group and if you don't feel a loss in your identity, maybe you didn't become a core part of the group. Think in retrospect back to your school,college days- what you were and how you have transformed ...

The equation would have been very simple and easy to understand but as we know our existence isn't quite that simple.................what makes it so very complex is that there are unknowns in it.The biggest unknown is the Supreme power which some call God.The way I view it is that its a powerful unknown that could change the equations anytime.The ones that deny the existence should then be able to find the answers to the equation as they don't have any unknowns.That clearly isn't possible and they only live in denial of their existence and in a false equation. Another important thing to notice is that when equations turn out to be unsolvable they are quick to include the unknown to justify their equations.People also try to assign absurd values to the unknown which obviously results in a fake equation. What I believe is that the unknown should be respected and given its due regards.Its importance to the equation is massive and hence it can't be ignored.The sooner we un...

When you think of the variables..........Life in itself is the biggest variables.Why I like to call Life-variable is because of its ever so varying nature.No matter how hard you may try to achieve some stagnation in a stage of life but still it moves on and the beauty of it is that although you know and understand that life is going to vary but what it will throw your way is always a mystery. Time and the situation are other variables that alter in continuum.Situation could actually be viewed as a product of several variables.When at a particular instance many variables interact,it leads to a situation.But these situations are only a part of the biggest variable.......Life. Why these variables are so important is because.........................they are VARIABLE.How so ever absurd it may sound but if we understand it that life is a variable ,then we should strive to make it worth living.If something can be varied then why not vary it to be the best.You know that Death is a constant so ...

The constants in life turn out to be mostly the unwanted part of it.A little time spent thinking would reveal that the biggest constant is surely DEATH.Nobody can avoid it,its the most definite thing in our ever so vulnerable lives.Other constants are happiness and sadness,the good and the bad times. Why I like to call them constants is because our lives are governed by a lot of factors,which keep on changing with time but then there are these factors which you know will surely be there and don't sprung up a surprise. A constant statement like "The man died." It does quite generate any emotion. But when you add variable to it "The man died in a Road Accident." The death was inevitable but it was untimely and thats what generates pathos for the man. What I am trying to say is that DEATH is a constant so if you are able to view at the constants of life and separate the variable,you attain your solitude in heaven.

This whole concept of the 'best friend' is something I haven't quite been able to come to terms with. I have serious concerns about things like  How many bests can you have? Are there different bests at different stages of your life? and Can you change your best? Well actually for me this Best Friend in itself is the biggest question.Surely you cant have any ranking system or measuring unit for your friends.Friendship is lived and loved by feelings and emotions,and there can not be a measure of that. I would rather not even like to think upon this question for long because in doing so I would be questioning the feelings and emotions that my friends have towards me. I would rather hope nobody makes me,their best friend and gives me a band to wear saying that someday.I am happy to be just friends with them.

Every decision in life is actually quite simple Each decision boils down to just one simple question, whether yes or no? Each and every problem off our life will narrow down to just this simple question. This is because each realistic problem could have only these two possible solutions. Every other thought is merely a way of keeping oneself away from taking a decision.

No matter what the pro's or con's of a person is(according to you) it always boils to just one point......Is the person happy from within? and if he is then there is no point bitching or discussing him coz its not affecting him in anyway.When you are happy with yourself you tend not to care much about what's being talked about you. This happiness is what leads to satisfaction.I mean,if I earn 40000/month n ambani makes a 4 crore a month but  he isn't happy whereas I am then ,wotz the point. What I intend to say is that even sky is not the limit, so if you are after stars then it will take you a few lifetimes to attain that happiness , so whatever you do stick to a level that's satisfying for you n makes you happy and then from there sky is your limit. It doesn't take money to be richer than a ambani,everyone could be richer than ambani in his own rights its just a matter of your personal satisfaction.