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The Constants

The constants in life turn out to be mostly the unwanted part of it.A little time spent thinking would reveal that the biggest constant is surely DEATH.Nobody can avoid it,its the most definite thing in our ever so vulnerable lives.Other constants are happiness and sadness,the good and the bad times. Why I like to call them constants is because our lives are governed by a lot of factors,which keep on changing with time but then there are these factors which you know will surely be there and don't sprung up a surprise. A constant statement like "The man died." It does quite generate any emotion. But when you add variable to it "The man died in a Road Accident." The death was inevitable but it was untimely and thats what generates pathos for the man. What I am trying to say is that DEATH is a constant so if you are able to view at the constants of life and separate the variable,you attain your solitude in heaven.

You 're my best friend!!!!!!

This whole concept of the 'best friend' is something I haven't quite been able to come to terms with. I have serious concerns about things like  How many bests can you have? Are there different bests at different stages of your life? and Can you change your best? Well actually for me this Best Friend in itself is the biggest question.Surely you cant have any ranking system or measuring unit for your friends.Friendship is lived and loved by feelings and emotions,and there can not be a measure of that. I would rather not even like to think upon this question for long because in doing so I would be questioning the feelings and emotions that my friends have towards me. I would rather hope nobody makes me,their best friend and gives me a band to wear saying that someday.I am happy to be just friends with them.